People's Insensitive Comments & Made Up Holidays!

 Are you like me, and getting annoyed with some of these rediculous posts on social media about made up Holidays aka Daughter's Day, Son's Day, Cousins Day, Puppy's Day, Cat Lover's Day, you name it there now is a day for it.  Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter, daughter-in-laws, sons, son-in-law, & everyone else on the list, however since when do we need to announce a special day in their honor.

The hurt that some might feel came to light yesterday, while watching Ree Druummond of The Pioneer Woman on the Food Network.   The show in question was called Sister Sister.  Ree & her family live on a cattle ranch in Oklahoma.  Her sister was visiting from Washington State, while preparing for her visit, Ree made an insensitive comment:  HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE WITHOUT A SISTER!

I thought about that for a while before sending off an email to which I have yet received a reply.  You might be asking why I consider it insensitive & why I have a problem with the made up Holidays?  Well here goes.

When people say things like Ree did or you're inundated with daughter & son posts, what do you suppose happens to those who might have lost their sister, daughter, son or even never fortunate to have that sister, daughter, son.  Their pain & sorrow may never go away but you needn't add to it by pushing it in their face.  I'm not saying you don't have the right to enjoy & be blessed.

My suggestion is to think before you speak or post!  In the case of The Pioneer Woman, the FoodNetwork certainly should have cut out that footage.  Shame on them.

#think #thinkbeforeyouspeak #thinkbeforeyoupost #Reedrummond #thepioneerwoman #thefoodnetwork #sister #daugthers #sons #madeupholidays

Mary Blum                                                                                                                                            Arbonne International                                                                                                                        Independent Consultant Id #16273991                                                                                        

Holiday Time is Here Again = Are You Ready?

 December is here and If you are anything like me, you might be wondering "How can this be"?  Don't get me wrong.  I love all the holidays, especially Christmas.  I love decorating, buying gifts, wrapping gifts, lights, cookies, the music, I love going to church to see the nativity set up, I love going to the tree lighting in town.  I love all of it.

I just wish there wasn't such a rush that is associated with it.  You see, I believe in enjoying each holiday separetly.  That means starting with October - I have several family birthdays - followed by Halloween.  Now while my children are married and no longer living at home, I still enjoy decorating the outside of my home and of course giving out candy.  I live in a development where we receive close to 100 kids trick or treating and it is fun for all.

Next is followed by Thanksgiving.  Normally, a family traditional holiday focused around the table filled with food.   Wheather at home or not, this is usually weeks of decision making with regard to where, what, who & when all will be prepared.

Alas, December 1st!!!!  Now the above begings and oh yes, I almost forgot, Christmas Cards need to go out too.  

Merry Christmas to all and To All a Good Night!

Holiday Shopping Time

I love Christmas.  I love the decorations and entertaining.  I love visiting people and parties.  I love gift giving.  What I don't love is shopping in stores!  I don't like malls during the holidays.  But, wait?  I said I love decorations, so shouldn't I also love going to the Mall during the holiday season?  

Well, here's the issue I have, The people!   But, wait?  I said I love people?  Yes, I do.  But something happens to people at the holidays when they're shopping.  Everyone seems to forget what the real "Reason for the Season".  Everyone is in a rush, pushing and shoving and trying to get ahead on line, once they find the line, that is.  Now, the stores have less workers on staff, so if you are trying to purchase an item you are likely to search for an open cash register - and when you find one, there will be a long line.  

This has led me, for one, to do most of my shopping online.  I must say, it also has led to a bit of guilt for adding to the problems storekeepers are facing.  So what's the solution?  Perhaps, doing a bit of both - shopping both online and small buiness stores.

#smallbusiness  #shoponline  #reasonfortheseason  #christmas  #hanukkah #giftgiving

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Part Time Everything: The Joy of Pleasing Clients

Part Time Everything: The Joy of Pleasing Clients:      I have heard from many businesses that during these days of Covid everyone is attempting to go over and above to please their clients ...

The Joy of Pleasing Clients

     I have heard from many businesses that during these days of Covid everyone is attempting to go over and above to please their clients while trying to keep their own business above water.  Somewhere, over the last few decades, stores especially, lost the premise "The Customer is Always Right."   Perhaps, now in this time of vieing for customers, we will see a return to civility in customer service. 

    As a small business owner, myself, in a Health & Wellness field, I pride myself in seeing that my Clients received the extra care when they make their purchases whether they order online themselves or request through me.  One such incident occurred yesterday that particularly made me feel extra happy.  I received a call requesting my advice on which product line I thought might be best for her.  After she placed her order she realized that instead of her normal 20% discount she was entitled to 40% + a free gift + free shipping.  This made her a very happy client which made me a very happy consultant!

    Sometimes the simplest things bring the biggest rewards.

#smallbusiness #clients #discount #health&wellness  

    maryblum.arbonne.com

Business Challenge during Covid 19 Times

Almost 1 year ago the majority of  the US had no clue what the words Covid 19 meant.  If someone had said those words to me, I most likely would have thought it referred to some thing hidden, foreign, as in underworld, certainly sinister!  And that it has proven to be.  

Many people have lost jobs.  Most have had to find a way to work from home.  Some have re-invented a means of support.  Life has changed for everyone in more ways than one.  

How about you?  Were you one of the few clinging on by a thread?  Are you wishing, hoping there is an answer to your need?   If so, perhaps you one who need to "re-invent yourself".

Holidays are here again

The Holiday's are here and it's time when most of us begin to run around like chickens without a head.  We start making lists (if we're organized enough), we begin to plan who, what, where, when; but mostly, if you're anything like me, you begin to worry about what will you "BUY"!
Yes, unfortunately, our society has turned this holiday season into a sales pitch and regardless of how much we may do our best to instill a religious atmosphere into our homes, between the advertisements and the brainwashing put upon us to keep up with the Jones's, I'm sorry to admit that I too have fallen victim to these sale pressures.
However, on a lighter note, all is not lost.  If we keep our senses about us, and think of the positive side (aka bargains) things may be pretty good.

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Summer coming to a close - so now what? #EXERCISE #HYDRATE #CLEANSE

So now what?  That's the question!  Maybe we vacationed, maybe we slacked off our exercise routine, maybe we ate too much snacks, maybe we overindulged partying, whatever your choice...(mine: all of the above lol)
DUN DE DUN DUN...Now it's time to face the music!You may have put on a few lbs, your face is puffy, your clothes are snug and your joints are achy.
I might have a plan to help.  I know what your going to say.  Diet & exercise!  Right?  Same old Same old.  Of course, exercise is important for everyone.  We all need to keep our bodies moving.  So start slow, take time to stretch.  Enjoy the outdoors when possible.  Whatever suits you.  Not everyone needs to be the superstar at the gym or the medal track winner.  Just be You!
Hydrate!  Did you know our bodies need 1/2 our weight in water each day to loose weight?  Yes, so if your goal is to drop some lbs. get busy drinking some water!  However, whether or not you want to loose lbs. we need water to function properly, so drink, drink, drink.
Cleanse!  No one likes the idea, true - but when you think about it, why not?  This is a "No Brainer"  We cleanse the outside of our bodies, why not the inside?
Last but not least Rest - Sleep is essential to our bodies.  Without proper sleep you won't go to the gym, you will eat poor & be off track.

Now take a deep breath...ahh cause Arbonne is here to assist
We have a 30 Days to Healthy Living Plan that can get you back on track!  msg me for info maryblum.@optonline.net
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5 Years go by fast - With or Without You! Are you in?

Where have the past 5 years taken you?  Where will the next 5 years lead you?  For myself, I've experienced several twists & turns, however, through it all I've been grateful to have my Arbonne business to fall back on.

 Things with the business, company & products have changed significantly.  For starters, the startup fee to obtain a Consultant ID is only $49 & this includes a website!.  How can you go wrong?  The products have greatly increased with the Nutrition Line being a wonderful addition to the Healthy Living from the "Inside Out".

Our Preferred Client Plan offers a 20% Discount to those not yet ready to join the business, however know the products are Pure Safe & Beneficial and want to take advantage of them while they are under no obligation to reorder.

  I suggest you take a look at my website so you will be better informed.

                                 

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Our Need to Read Labels!

This morning, while doing laundry, I had the TV on.  Home & Family had a guest from the show "This is Us" Mandy Moore. I admit I have never seen this show.  I'm probably one of the few women out there to say that, but I have been making a sincere effort to not watch TV or at least only watch comedy or dramas that will make me happy.  I admit, I'm a Pollyanna.
Anyway, back to Home & Family's guest... the main reason other than to promote her latest Hallmark movie was to talk about her association with Natures Way!
Now I'm not here putting down their products.  I'm simply here asking several questions.
She was promoting products such as pro-biotics, vitamin D & omega 3 with fish oil.
Why is it people simply listen to her and purchase these products?
Why did Congress listen to Kim Kardashian?
Why does it take "So Called Entertainers" for people to sit up & take notice?

In most cases these products are Not #PURE #SAFE #BENEFICIAL
Natures Way is NOT Vegan - That means these products DO contain Animal products & By-Products.That means they HAVE BEEN TESTED ON ANIMALS - or it would have been stated otherwise.  It is NOT GLUTEN-FREE.

Now granted, there are many people for whom this is not a concern, so that's fine.  I get that.

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Banned Ingredients In Our Products

Be an educated consumer. It's up to each one of us. I'm so proud of the Company I'm Associated with. They have taken it upon themselves to Ban Ingredients - Not Wait!!! What's in your products? Choose #PURE #SAFE#BENEFICIAL #joinme #CHOOSE #ARBONNE 
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BEING HEALTHY IS BEING HAPPY!

Yes, you can be Healthy & Happy!  Yes, you can eat and enjoy life.  Yes, you can say "Yes" to things in life.
I found this out when I began using Arbonne products.  All Arbonne products are vegan, glutenfree, non-gmo, and a 39 yr old company that never tested on animals!  Now that's what I call a Happy & Healthy Life!

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Story of Lost Wallet

Today, I found myself riding the LIRR into the city, on a very rainy, windy, cold day.  As with most train rides, it was filled with an array of N Y people busy with their own business.  As you exit Penn Station, no matter what time, day or season, it is always filled with people and generally most exit up 2 sets of escalators to 7th Avenue & 32nd Street which is where I was going.  As I was proceeding, I overheard a conversation from a young man - dressed casual - but nice.  He was about 30, and although not physically resembling my oldest son, I was struck by the similarities.  He was speaking to a woman on his phone, whom I assumed was his wife.  He was saying he left his wallet in a taxi & had called to cancel his credit card, however, now he had no money to get home.  Then things got heated, he said: "What do you want me to do, go up and ask people for $1 till I have enough money?"  After we exited to the street, I could see he was so upset, I stepped aside to see if I could help & was relieved that I was able to give him $20.  He was stunned and I was at peace.

I was always taught you don't tell when you assist others, so telling this goes against my belief;however, I spent the day in "Gratitude".  Gratitude, that I had the extra $20 to give.  Gratitude that I have the many blessings in my life.  I spent the day in NYC seeing so many people with their hands out asking for help and remembering my mother saying "There but for the Grace of God go I."
So here I sit, for 12 yrs, with a business opportunity that I know has the potential to help people.  Everyone has ideas what they would do if they had extra money.  We always think about the little things in our lives, our homes, cars, clothes, but when we become faced with the needs of others whether due to illness, death, loss of property due to fire or homelessness and you are in a position to assist someone - That's what life is about, even if it's only something as small as a $20 gift to someone in need.   I'm grateful for this opportunity that was handed to me.  Maybe this could be your opportunity too.  #joinme
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28y8YFionO8

Why Arbonne? Why Now?

People have been asking and answering these questions for years.  I, however, believe the answers may have somewhat changed over the last few years.
Yes,the company is still offering products for everyone.  Products that everyone uses on a daily basis and then repurchase.  Products that are pure, safe and beneficial.  Products that people in today's world are actually seeking.  The business model is brilliant.  You teach and train others to do exactly what you do and you get paid on their earnings.
So what is different???  Well, the people it is attracting!
You see, the people are waking up and realizing this is a smart way of working.  This is time management!  Arbonne actually attracting DOCTORS, LAWYERS AND PROFESSIONALS in all walks of life and yes HOUSEWIFE's too.
So where ever you may stand in this ranking, why not take a look.  You never know!  Arbonne may be for you too. 
And NOW for the Month of April, Arbonne is giving an added incentive for you to join this incredible business.  They are waiving the Sign Up Fee with a qualifying 1st time order of $500. + Free Shipping + Free Gift!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28y8YFio

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Here's what I do!

When people ask me what do I do, I say it's simple: 
I stop - Stop buying retail. 
I start - Start buying from my own virtual store, getting a discount + earning a commission when others purchase from me. 
I Share - Share this amazing opportunity by teaching & training others to do the same as well as offering people a chance to purchase at a discount by becoming a Preferred Client if they don't want to pay retail. 
That's it! Plain & Simple
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Who ever heard of a START YOUR OWN BUSINESS SALE?

Who ever heard of a start your own business sale?  That's my question.  Well, now you can say you did!  
Arbonne International, a pure, safe and beneficial, health and wellness company has done just that.  This month of September, Arbonne has an offer for anyone 18 and older who wishes to become a Independent Consultant to join our business for a registration fee of only $45 with an initial order of $350! 

Share Arbonne products with those you know and earn a 35% commission on Client sales and a 15% Preferred Client commission on Preferred Clients. 
Plus many other ways to increase your earnings.  There is no glass ceiling with Arbonne.
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Breakfast Cereal Containing Weed Killing Chemical

So if what we feed our children isn't scary enough, now we're told WEED KILLING CHEMICAL GLYPHOSATE linked to cancer is found is some children's breakfast foods????

According to this study, they say they are "very concerned".  As a mother, I wonder....what exactly does "VERY CONCERNED" mean?  Does this mean that THEY no longer will feed these foods to their children?  Does it mean it is QUESTIONABLE or is it like so many other products that we have been told of possible danger and then several years later, told they then were put back on the safe list. 

In this case, when I read the word CHEMICAL an alarm sounds off in my brain.  I know I don't want it in my food.  I know there is no better way to start my day & that of my loved ones, than with a pea protein #Arbonne Shake #glutenfree #vegan 
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/glyphosate-roundup-chemical-found-in-childrens-breakfast-foods/
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Skin Care, Cosmetics, Congress & Kourtney Kardashian?

So maybe someone can explain to me why it takes a celebrity (if you can call her that) such as Kourtney Kardashian to gather the attention of Congress?  Yes, you heard me right.  Last month, Ms. Kardashian sat down with members of Congress to discuss the ingredients which are permitted in skin care and cosmetics in the US vs in Europe where their restrictions and standards have been in place for many years.

I was first made known of these dangers by a advocate against breast cancer, Karen Miller who heads the Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition.  I recall feeling extremely naive, 12 years ago, when she said, what you put on your skin goes directly into your blood system in 26 seconds.  I sought out safe products and have been introducing them to others since.  Try as I might, there are still those who think what I'm saying is not important enough to listen to.

Hence, my dilemma.  If someone with tremendous knowledge such as Karen on the subject of possible causes and effects of breast cancer is not being heard, and certainly I'm not being taken seriously, WHY is KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN?

I suppose, it shouldn't matter.  The fact is, they did listen.  Will they do something is another matter.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3vsg0E_hA8
Kourtney Kardasian addressing Congress

http://www.hbcac.org/

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Mental Energy Drain

If you are anything like me, about this time of night, 7:43p.m. to be exact, you're about ready to close your eyes, yet your body says it's still early.  The mind has had enough for the day.  It's saying I'm done, I'm stressed, I'm caput.  Perhaps I need transcendental meditation.  Having tried that with not much success, I find myself relying on my Arbonne Essentials Enery Fizz Sticks.  Ahhh - does the job all the time.  Yep, I'm back up and ready to complete the night.  Thank's Arbonne, you've done it again.
Woohoo - I just had to edit this blog!
Since it's titled MENTAL ENERGY DRAIN - It was originally written April 2018, Arbonne has now added a new product to its long list of Nutrition Line called MIND HEALTH!  It's formulated to aid in memory and mind focus.  Who couldn't benefit from this

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CANCEL CLEAR DELETE

Arbonne's past President, Rita Davenport, was a great influence on my life.  This phrase, CANCEL, CLEAR, DELETE is meant to eliminate your mind from drifting to negative thoughts.
Imagine you are driving down the highway on you way home from the office. For no apparent reason you begin to think of an event which occurred during the day and you now start to dwell on the negative person, place or thing which happened.  Instead of focusing on this event, Rita encouraged us to repeat 3 times CANCEL, CLEAR, DELETE.
After years of doing this, my mind has come to a point where it automatically says CANCEL, CLEAR, DELETE when I think of a negative thought!!!
So, I'd say I owe a great big THANK YOU to Rita!
Anyone out there care to join me?  It's pretty simple.  CANCEL, CLEAR, DELETE!

That's the way Arbonne rolls.

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